Saturday, September 25, 2010

All that Matters!!

El Quote 

"Weakness of attitude becomes weakness of character." Albert Einstein 

Everybody says that Attitude is all that matters. Build a positive attitude and you will be successful and happy. But, you keep wondering, how. And that is the most important thing. You need to choose your attitude. Shape it well to reach great self realization. 

Everyday you have a choice to be positive or negative. You choose to be negative and you get a bad day. May be it keeps you happy. But at the end of the day you lost one day with a negative attitude. That one day hardly matters in your really long life. On the other hand you keep positive attitude and see the difference. No matter what happens be positive. Try this exercise for a day/week/month/life long and you find the difference. It does not take courage to be positive. It is a simple task and everyone can do it.

Once I started with a really bad day. Series of mis-fortunate events started from the early hours till night. But somehow I was very happy that day and after every mis-fortune I told to myself this is the last. And soon the day was finished and I found the whole day was miserable but I didn't lose my cool and I was unaffected by any of the events. In a moment I realized the power of positive attitude.

It's time for you to try it now! There is never a wrong time to do a good thing. Do it now.

Friday, September 24, 2010

just few lines!!!


I love to love,
I care to care.
I wish to wish,
I dare to dare.

I dream to dream,
I cry to cry.
I try to scream,
I never fail to try.

I love to live,
I desire to fly.
You belong to me.
I belong to thy.

Right time to Break-Free?

The other day, I was thinking of one of my college mates. He was a shy guy from a small town. Always been bullied by everyone else. You can relate him to a typical character form any movie in which there is a college-going-students' group and one that is bullied. And then I remember that particular guy got out of college and went for job and lo! - look at him now. He is all smart and out-going. Knows how to talk and behave. You know what i mean. Now this guy is not like before. You cannot bully him. And you cannot accept him as he has become. But, he has made his life more easy. Only now you will like him less. But he has gained a respect among his new acquaintances.

So, whatever change he underwent was for his own good. But the society around him wasn't ready to accept those changes. He broke his threshold and transformed. And this happens to all of us sometime. You feel this when you meet some of the old folks after 3-4 long years and you have this deep wrenching feeling inside your stomach about that guy. Your feelings have changed for that someone and so is his/her's. Obviously the intensity of disliking each other is directly proportional to the index of transformation.

Just thinking of breaking free!!
Are you ready?